In the Southeastern United States there is a traditional style of house called the Dog Trot, or Breeze Way or (my favorite, though less metaphorically useful) the Possum Trot. The house begins as a perfect square, divided in half -- one side for communal living, dining, visiting, Picking & Grinning, etc., and the other for private sleeping, etc. etc. In between the halves, running from the centered front door to the centered back door is an alley, or the Dog Trot, which allows whatever breeze might show up, or the dogs hot in pursuit of, say, a 'possum, freedom to flow in either direction.
I was struck this morning by the similarity to the human brain, its construct as left-half (intellectual, computative, competitive and ego-driven) and right-half (creative, dreamy, intuitive, serene). From the left half, we deal with worldly matters, come together with other beings, sometimes in peace and common purpose, sometimes in strife with accompanying pain, betrayal, loss. Here is where our internal conflicts emerge, and here is where we find the least effective resources to handle those conflicts; the ego is happiest -- at least it is most comfortable -- in anger, and offers fear and grief to support its goals of supremacy. Our left hemisphere tells us We're Right, They're Wrong and They must be fought vigorously, to the death if necessary. Doors slam, access to the sleeping, resting, restorative, creative bedrooms is abruptly cut off. Worst of all, the Dog Trot, where we can push that gunk out of the psycho/spiritual house, gets clogged up. Dogs pile on each other, sluggish, inattentive, snarling. God knows what new critters are threatening us with those dang dogs not taking care of business!
(I’m revisiting this draft from a year and a half ago; I haven’t figured out what to do about those dogs in the trot, but I’ll certainly let you know when I do.)